- Your libido is dead and you're broken. You're just not interested in sex anymore and you're worried there's nothing that can be done to improve the situation.
- You'll never get the old story that "sex is bad" out of your head. You're an accomplished woman in so many ways, but you've never felt comfortable with your own sexuality.
- Intimacy with your partner will always feel like a chore on your "to do" list. You want to want to have sex again, but how?
- There is so much to do in the day taking care of everyone else's needs that there will never be time for you. Never enough time to devote to you...Your life, your pleasure, your up level ...your dreams.
- You will have to settle for a half-lived life. You have so many dreams and you are worried they will never happen.
Breathe! All of this can be addressed... I’ll let you in on a little secret:
You're not broken. You’re experiencing something that many women go through at this point in their lives.
Your libido isn’t dead. It’s just waiting to come alive as you identify what pleasure looks like for you.
And you’re not doomed to a life devoid of excitement and intimacy. Reigniting that spark you once had (or have always been looking for) is possible!
The real problem is women are not taught how to own their sexuality, to be responsible for and entitled to their own sexual pleasure.
Women are also not taught that we can prioritize ourselves over others and create amazing lives that benefit everyone.
...But all that can change!
I know because I’ve been there myself, and I’ve helped many women from all different backgrounds rediscover their passions, own their sexuality and create the life of their dreams.
Imagine a life where...
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You're EMPOWERED to ask for what you want inside and outside the bedroom.
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Intimacy is fun and PLEASURABLE for you again (or for the first time)!
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You no long think SEX is dirty or a duty, but so much more! It is a conduit for connection and joy!
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You have INTIMATE experiences more often, and enjoy them!
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You feel CLOSER to yourself and/or your partner, and communication flows easily.
- You are LIVING YOUR BEST LIFE and everyone benefits.
Once you own your sexuality, your inner strength and your self determination, all of this can be your reality.
BUT you don’t have to be alone on this journey!
Get ready to create...
Your Magnificent Life Inside and Outside the Bedroom!
The Lit Clit Club gives you a NEW perspective on sexuality, self-empowerment and pleasure inside a safe and supportive environment. Through group coaching, Q&A’s, and innovative workbooks -- you’ll explore your thoughts and attitudes around Sexual Intimacy and creating Your Best Life. Month after Month you get closer to being your more authentic self inside and outside of the bedroom.
When you become part of the Lit Clit Club... your whole life can change. Here is what one of my Diamonds said...
“Working with Dr. Sonia has been one of the greatest blessings of my life. It put me on a journey to self-discovery. When I started I was in a toxic relationship that I was hiding from my family and friends. Even at the tender age of 68, there were so many things I did not know about my body. Working with Dr. Sonia helped me to understand that I was a sexual being who deserved pleasure! My whole life changed and I changed my relationships with many people. Setting boundaries was key for me to gain my own independence. This is a "MUST TRY" experience!
I eventually reached out to a professional for help, but by that time, the years of emotional pain and lack of communication had already taken their toll on the relationship. The relationship ended.
But, I persevered and kept doing the work to own my sexuality, and to create my best life. I grew fully into myself as a sexual being and in the process I created an amazing life.
That’s when I started to think about all the other women who might need someone to talk to about their sexual issues and broken dreams.
Since I was already a life coach and doctor, I was comfortable talking about difficult subjects. I decided to train as a sexual counselor and provide sex coaching services to clients in addition to life coaching.
I waited too long to get the help I needed, but you don’t have to.
My team and I are here to help you rediscover your passion, reignite intimacy and create your best life!
“Dr. Sonia is an amazing Life and Sex Coach. She helped me work through sexual health issues as well as emotional and mental challenges with sex. My husband and I are truly grateful for the support she gave us.”
WHAT'S INCLUDED IN THE LIT CLIT CLUB
Weekly Sex Coaching
Bring your questions - this is a safe group coaching environment to get answers & benefit from Dr. Sonia and her team. All Coaching calls are webinar style with your camera off. Relax and get the coaching that you need.
Sexual Health
Dr. Sonia and her experts answer your questions about sexual health, perimenopause
and menopause
Relationship Coaching
Dr. Kimmery Newsom, with a background in marriage and family therapy, supports you in creating amazing relationships with partners, family and friends.
Life Coaching
Your magnificent life happens inside and outside the bedroom. That’s why we offer group life coaching to our members. Get the coaching you need on all aspects of your life.
Dream Life
What does your Magnificent Life look like? The Lit (*)Lit team will help you dream big, explore possibilities and make it happen.
Body Image
and Embodiment
Radiate love and confidence as Master coach Lisa Hatlestad helps you get out of your head and be grounded in your amazing body. Learn how to love your body right now.
Trauma Coaching
We care about you. We recognize that trauma may have happened in your life. We encourage you to look into trauma therapy. But our Trauma expert Dr. Kimmery Newsom is also here for you.
Queen's Corner
Women in their 50's, 60's and beyond have a right to a sizzling sex life, too! Dr. Sonia and Rev. Jacqueline Arnold coach you to feel alive for life. If you are post menopausal, this is definitely the place for you!
Rainbow Connection
Authentically You & Me. LGBTQIA+ coaching with Gretchen Hernandez including self ID, expression, transition, coming out at any age and being a partner with LGBTQIA+ folks
Ask a Coach
Have a question between calls? Submit your question via email & get an answer from an expert! All submitted questions are published in a FAQ section each month.
Toy Unboxing
It's time to learn about all the toys! the Lit (*)Lit Club is a safe space to learn about different pleasure toys - for solo & couple play. You have the questions, Dr. Sonia has the answers! We bring the toy store directly to you in the comfort of your own home!
Guest Experts
Your concerns are important to us. Periodically, we'll bring in a guest expert to speak on a specific topic. Topics will be chosen based on requests and suggestions. Ask for a topic to be covered, and we will find the expert!
+ WORTHY & EMPOWERING BONUSES
We are also offering TWO bonuses that are oh-so-necessary for getting the MOST out of this program. They are highlighting worthiness and communication.
- You Are Worthy Workbook. Think of this as your personal journal and guide to always have on hand through this transformational journey. This workbook will prepare you for the steps you are about to take by offering examples and exercises to help you recognize that YOU are worthy NOW -- just as you are!
- "Having Difficult Conversations" workbook. This is a MUST if you struggle with communication or need some help navigating hard conversations with your partner. Let this workbook guide you through speaking with your partner about the intimacy challenges you face and why you want to get help with this program!
Even opening a conversation with your partner can deepen your connection and offer insight into each other’s lives -- and that’s a very good thing!
“Working with Sonia has been such a great experience. She was professional, knowledgeable, and able to create a comfortable space for me to share about life experiences that are usually difficult to talk about.”
- Become comfortable embracing yourself as a sexual being!
- Engage with your partner in new and exciting ways!
- Reconnect with your body and learn to love and appreciate it as it is.
- Understand anatomy, libido, and desire as it relates to pleasure.
- Rediscover your desire and learn how to focus on your own pleasure.
- Give yourself permission to OWN your sexuality!
Your Magnificent Life is Within Reach!
Become a Member of the Lit Clit Club
THERE’S NO BETTER TIME THAN NOW
I speak from experience when I tell you that you don’t want to wait to get help with your intimacy challenges. And life is too short to put off creating the life of your dreams.
You only have one life! Now is the time to make it exactly what you want. Lack of sexual intimacy can start to lead to anger, resentment, and stilted communication. It can even cause you to grow apart in your relationship and suck all the joy from life.
The sooner you address these challenges and learn to own your sexuality, the sooner you can start to enjoy closer connection and passionate intimacy in your life.
It’s time to stop putting your pleasure and your life on hold!
NEXT STEPS
You’re just a few steps away from creating your best life inside and outside of the bedroom! To get started...
- Click any of the beautiful enrollment buttons on this page.
- You’ll get whisked to a magical payment page with different payment plan options.
- Submit your payment, and then wait for the confirmation email to land in your inbox.
- Orientation starts at the beginning of the month!
- Start seeing results in months, not years!
This program IS for you if:
- The intimacy has started to decrease over time or is missing altogether -- and you want to get that SPARK back.
- You want to WANT intimacy and enjoy your sexual experiences, but you don’t know where to start.
- Sex is the last thing on your mind, because you’re struggling with stress and responsibilities, but you want to change that!
- You want to create the life of your dreams and stop people-pleasing all the time.
- You want more in life, but you are not even certain how to dream anymore.
- You finally want to prioritize your pleasure, create an amazing relationship with your body and spend some time exploring yourself and your sexuality.
This program is NOT for you if:
- You’re having HOT passionate sex that couldn’t get any better. (Congratulations! Why are you reading this?)
- You aren’t open to doing the work necessary to own your sexuality and improve your intimacy and your life.
- You’re not ready to explore your own pleasure.
- You want to keep trying what you’re already doing to see if it works the 100th time around...
- Both you and your partner have no interest in having better sex or deepening your connection.
- You are content living a life devoid of intimacy, excitement and sexual pleasure. (Okay, this can’t be you, can it?)
IN JUST A FEW MONTHS …
- Become comfortable embracing yourself as a sexual being!
- Engage with your partner in new and exciting ways!
- Reconnect with your body and learn to love and appreciate it as it is.
- Understand anatomy, libido, and desire as it relates to pleasure.
- Rediscover your desire and learn how to focus on your own pleasure.
- Give yourself permission to create the life of your dreams
What Other Women who have worked with Dr. Sonia have said
Sonia is a very gentle coach, giving me time and space to become comfortable talking about something that was so private to me. I loved how she pushed me out of my comfort zone, but not to the point of resistance. She was very flexible in her approach, taking into consideration my faith and any personal moral reservations, while still offering the information for me to digest and apply to my own life. She is very knowledgeable and supportive. I was quite surprised at how much we accomplished in such a short time working together.
Dr. Wright is phenomenal! Her work frees women to own their sexualities and love and appreciate their bodies. It is difficult - if not impossible - to do one without the other. While her humor and warmth makes it easy - her mission is serious: Give women the coaching they need to love and listen to their bodies and have a much better sex life as a result. I have recommended her Own Your Sexuality Now! groups to clients, friends, and family. I am so grateful for her important work she is doing for women and couples.
At each session, [Sonia] was very good at identifying the emotional space I was in, and thoughtfully navigated between topics of sex life and relationship, other personal life, and work life, to make sure that I was headed in the right direction toward improving my relationship and sex life, which was my ultimate goal. She has a fun style but takes on serious topics with professionalism and does not seem to be fazed by even the most challenging topics.
Coaching with Dr. Sonia is incredible! She puts me at ease so quickly with her warmth and confidence. Under her guidance, I am able to shift my perspective, which leads to new opportunities and, ultimately, growth. We have worked on many issues with great results! I highly recommend Dr. Sonia and I’m extremely grateful for her coaching.
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One last thing...
As someone who was once in your shoes, I know how scary it can be to take that first step toward getting help.
In fact, my fears and self-doubt held me back from getting the help I needed for so many years.
Don't Let This Happen to You!
You are in charge of your own life and your own pleasure. And you have the power to improve both right now. Don't wait another minute. We are here for you.
All you have to do is take that first step toward getting the support you need. And once you’re in the Lit (*)Lit Club, Our Team will be with you every step of the way!
GUARANTEE
I’m so confident you're going to LOVE the results you get from the Lit (*)Lit Club! that it comes with a satisfaction guarantee. If you commit to attending the coaching calls and doing the work, your relationship with your sexuality and your overall life will improve.
Yep, not only is this program a great value, it’s RISK-FREE. Why would I offer this? Because I KNOW that this membership program is like nothing out there and it provides so much value. It has worked for so many women and it can work for you too!
